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    Gerald shared a story:

    My father GERALD’S life was hasten due to the massive OVERDRUGGING of antiphyscotic drugs. R.I.P DADDY, JUSTICE WILL BE SERVED. GERALD was abused emotionally, physically, and chemically Please Watch : America Tonight, Sheila MacVicar investigates GERALD’S Story. Gerald’s Abuse occurred in the City of Mission Viejo, CA.

    Jay shared a story:

    Hi Kerrie,
    It was truly a wonderful experience to see you yesterday in Governor Branstad’s office for the signing of SF 306. I would have a hard time right now doing much more than tending to the two suits I have filed and the other in preparation for our Mother. You are certainly free to post this “story of our Mother” if you desire to do so. I am in the process of using the new IA Elder Abuse law (IA Code 235F) for our Mother.
    This is the link for her story:

    Sherry shared a story:

    Willie Jo Mills was a sweet lady (mother of Sherry Johnston) who suffered a stroke in Oct 2007. Her Son forced her into a guardianship with a private guardian while the family was begging him not to. Mother cried and cried pleading them not to do this to her. Mother was forced into guardianship without clear and convincing evidence and by a jury. She was drugged to the point she was addicted to Vicodin and had to go to the hospital several times for overdose. The doctor faked papers saying she was totally incapacitated. Mother never lost her ability to reason with her mind just that she was paralyzed on her right side from the stroke in 2007 . The professional guardianship provider David Dexel threatened us stating " THAT IF WE GIVE HIM ANY TROUBLE HE WOULD PUT MOM WHERE WE WOULD NEVER SEE HER" Finally In Dec 2012 I threatened David to have him removed for trying to put mom on Hospice with just a mere UTI infection causing her to almost die from neglect.. He retaliated May 17,2013 by revoking my visitation having Silverado Senior Living call 911 and state that “I HAVE A GUN AND GET ME OUT NOW” . Mom suffered a broken tibia and fibula June 18,2013 . She had to wait 3 hours before they took her to the emergency room. My visitation was reinstated for 4 hours and then revoked again. David drugged mom with the EXELON patch and almost killed her causing her severe leg cramps and nausea . He made her wear it anyway. In Sept 2013 David Resigned and Ginger Lott his buddy became Successor Guardian and really cranked up the abuse. She stopped me from juicing mom and decided that she had a swallowing problem and then stopped the EXELON patch and started forcing CHOLESTEROL meds that were causing severe leg cramps. Ginger kept abusing and abusing. Candice filed 2 Emergency Restraining orders that were ignored by Judge Christine Butts . Judge Christine Butts made fun of our situation stating “THAT IF SHE EVER NEEDED A GUARDIAN FOR HER PARENTS , SHE WANTED IT TO BE DAVID DEXEL”. The court appointed attorneys Howard Reiner and Clarinda Comstock just ran up attorney fees that mom had to pay and did nothing to help mom. Judge Butts appointed Louis Ditta to defend Ginger Lott actions as we were the problem. Mother was so sick April 20,2014 that Ginger refused to take mom to the hospital. I called 911 and the fire department sent an ambulance and EMERITUS along with GINGER LOTT sent them away then about a hour later GINGER texted us saying that another private ambulance is going to take mom to Methodist Hospital. Mom was sent by herself to the hospital with a note on her stomach to sign herself in, the list of meds she was taken cut out of the log and a "DO NOT RESUSCITATE ". GINGER never showed up. Mom was so sick that she weighed about 100lbs. Mom was moved to skilled nursing where it got worse. . More drugs, no water, loosing weight, nasty e-mails from Ginger until finally the sitters, GINGER and EMERITUS started giving mom water from a spoon to really make her sick. Mom was left for 5 days with delirium before finally taking her to King Wood emergency room when the sitter gave false medical records. The sitter claimed mom was a diabetic which was a lie. Ginger and the sitters kept adding more and more medical symptoms like now she has Diabetes, Kidney failure etc. The doctor that put mom in guardianship is the same doctor that put mom on Hospice without even seeing her because of family conflict. Mom died Sept 27, 2014 one year after GINGER LOTT became Successor Guardian weighing less than 90 lbs

    Ellen shared a story:

    My mother, a former pin-up girl from WWII, married to my father, the Chief Civilian Scientist for the Signal Corps, who installed the radar at Pearl Harbor, the VT fuse on the atomic bomb, and more, has been seized by the State of NY in their draconian Mental Hygiene 81 “Guardianship” laws. She is not even a resident of NY but was visiting me from her home state of NJ, where she still owns a home that she is not allowed to sell as the County and a relative want it for themselves, as well as all of her art work, etc. She has been placed in a substandard nursing home in the Bronx, where she knows no one, and has a Guardian. Let me stress, she is not even from NY but NY Courts have seized her and she is now, against her will and Power of Attorney documents, warehoused in the Bronx. If someone goes to visit that tries to “free” her or photograph her injuries, they are threatened with arrest, as I have been, her daughter. She is found black and blue, starved, and drugged. The public needs to know about “Guardianship” laws/exploitation. It’s a huge industry in every state, and very corrupt. The money is laundered through Wall Street banks. Very scary. Not our country any longer. We need to expose and fight this.

    Anonymous shared a story:

    Her prison will not allow me to call Mom or Mom to call me. I live 17 hours away so a visit is not realistic, if I could even do that. Her guardians will not allow her to be represented or to carry out her own wish of being cared for by my wife and myself in our paid-for home driving our paid-for older cars. (I was accused of seeking money while my brother is soaked in debt; my sister recovers from the financial effects of a nasty divorce but otherwise lives quite well on her government pension. I did four thousand dollars of unpaid work plus two thousand in lost wages and in travel to work on Mom’s re-roofing. I’m self employed.)

    These sibling characters are: actors, con artists and socially psychopathically sweet to peers and the community who aren’t savvy enough to sniff deceit and misrepresentation when presented to them. They self validate plunder of the honest work of others. They feel entitled and feel free to wreck “caught” friends and lovers.

    Mom had the classic story. She fell ill with influenza type A and was taken to the hospital whereby I was barred from contact and she by temporary guardianship entered under their control. They stole her from her home of fifty years and seized all her possessions. They barred me from any contact, even while not under court order to allow that. Instead patient files and Power of Attorney were used to bully hospital staff. She was drugged and began doing and saying things she’s never been known to do in her life. Then came re-hab.

    Mom bounced back fairly quickly in re-hab hoping to be restored to her home and way of life. Instead she was electronically and chemically restrained for being aggressive. As is the hospital, I called the staff’s bluff and called my mom daily. Trouble though, was it would take 6,8,10 calls/several hours to find her, wake her, wait for nurses, get hung up on, meals, lost phone, no answer etc. And the paperwork one to represent her or me amidst the spiralled blindsiding. It was now quite clear this was evolving into a meritless, control-and-vendetta-only, guardianship.

    She found herself in a dementia unit one day, having been escorted without notice and rehab nastily said they would not tell me where Mom was taken to. I was not told Mom’s whereabouts for several weeks and once again; I was told not to call her but I did anyway. Mom became irate and determined to escape having even rallied an escape party. She was drugged to control her only to have her defecating literally everywhere in the unit. The unit administrator promptly expelled her. the psych ward. More this and that including physical restraints. She nor I was allowed phone contact yet again. I got a call through only to have someone “hovering”. Mom said we needed to abort the call. A passcode was assigned but upon bypassing it Mom was already re-assigned and I had completely trashed my reputation into being labeled a nuisance.

    I lost all contact with Mom until an angel located her for me. I couldn’t get the passcode and that’s where the story remains. There is a slight caveat though. Mom was locked into a pricey facility but the fact remains she has been stripped off all rights, decisions, contact with me, home, property, car, all monies, travel, past history and friends — everything. She is now owned by my brother and sister. Mom loathes my brother and only puts up with my sister’s annihilation of me and others to receive “willing victim compensation” such as visits, treats, gifts and what not.

    Loathing, anger, hatred,.. none of these even come close to the cruel atrocity being committed against Mom and me by my siblings. The day it becomes legal to seize her and re-locate to another jurisdiction I will do anything required to rescue Mom.

    Vida shared a story:

    Isolation of our mother by a sister that kidnapped our mother into her house and blocked half of the family from getting access and visit our mother.
    There was a co-guardianship and co-trust in place. But the unilateral take over is beyond believe.
    The courts are tied down from stopping this kind of abuse and Isolation.
    Since the demented elder is under their watch in their house no law in the land can stop these wicked people from blocking loved ones to be with our frail elderly parents.
    Legal nightmare. Neutral guardianship are nothing but financial exploitation and cashing in until no more financial gains.
    Our elderly are suffering . This is dishonorable and a plague in our country. Freedom for our elderly is what "Kasem Foundation " is pushing and advocating nationwide.
    Thank you for your advocacy. You have been a source of hope.

    Vida shared a story:

    Isolation of our mother by a sister that kidnapped our mother into her house and blocked half of the family from getting access and visit our mother.
    There was a co-guardianship and co-trust in place. But the unilateral take over is beyond believe.
    The courts are tied down from stopping this kind of abuse and Isolation.
    Since the demented elder is under their watch in their house no law in the land can stop these wicked people from blocking loved ones to be with our frail elderly parents.
    Legal nightmare. Neutral guardianship are nothing but financial exploitation and cashing in until no more financial gains.
    Our elderly are suffering . This is dishonorable and a plague in our country. Freedom for our elderly is what "Kasem Foundation " is pushing and advocating nationwide.
    Thank you for your advocacy. You have been a source of hope.

    Pat shared a story:

    Hi, we too have a similar story . our dad is still alive but he has cancer, he has dementia yes he has been married to his wife for 50 years, all 50 years she has kept our dad from us . she has been jealous of us since the day she met us . when we got a chance to ever talk to him it was always with her right there in the conversation in which he nor us could get a word in . so from small children to adults we we’ve never been allowed to have our dad in our lives. She even went as far as to adopt a child just to say they had a child together, she pretended she gave birth to him, her sister told us how she wore a pillow under her clothes to pretend as if she was pregnant. Now how sick was that. Jealous of your husband’s three daughters just that much. But thank God our Mother always took excellent care of us. Our Mother is gone now and we only have each other. Our Dad has been taken from the state of Florida by his wife and her family. To Ohio, she’s been committed to a facility and my dad is there living with her sister. Going back a bit in my story. Our step brother that they adopted was the sweetest brother anyone could ask for. But he passed away a few years ago at about the age of 29 or so.he too was heartbroken about the way she treated his sisters. We loved him dearly. Well anyway she had planned to leave everything to him, granted we never asked for anything from them. But our Dad worked hard all his life, and never even saw his paychecks, and when he retired, he still never saw his pension check. Now that he is there her niece has taken over her care but the state is involved with that too. Anyway they have our dad, when he has three daughters, he still can’t be with. There’s more to the story but I don’t have time to tell all.thank you.

    Marisa shared a story:

    Our beloved Elderly are being robbed of their Constitutional, Civil, Human and Patient Rights by Unethical Staff in Nursing Homes~! My Mother, Genine Zizzo, is featured in America Tonight’s Exclusive Expose’ “Drugging Dementia” – “Nursing Home Nightmare”. My Mom did not have Dementia. She did have a Heart Condition. She was an alert, Independent Woman who still lived in the home I grew up in, but had an accidental fall at home and sprained her back. Hospital X-Ray showed NO Fracture. Hospital recommended 1 to 2 wks of Physical Therapy in a SNF and then return home. This is the chilling account of how she was FORCIBLY INJECTED by an Unscrupulous Nurse at ROSEVILLE POINT HEALTH AND WELLNESS CENTER with the Dangerous and Powerful Anti-Psychotic Drug Haldol, Against Her Will and Against MY Orders as her Durable and Medical Durable Power Of Attorney. She died 12 days later in an Irreversible Vegetative State, Dehydrated, a Urinary Tract Infection, Multiple Organ Failure and a FRACTURED SPINE! I will NOT rest until the Malicious Staff are held Accountable for this Crime.

    Misty shared a story:

    Guardianship Laws Need To Be Changed! Please share!
    Legally Kidnapped And this is what #alienation looks like.

    29 years ago I met a beautiful soul, Jim. I call him brother; Jim has an Intellectual disability. My parents adopted Jim and brought him into our home when he was five years of age. After 27 years of marriage our parents divorced and dad ended up remarrying. In 2013 our father died of complications of his military service (i.e. Agent Orange) and left his current wife as legal Guardian of Jim. My mother never gave up her rights to her son.

    My brother’s #guardian has restricted him from seeing his mother and entire family that he grew up knowing. Driven to find freedom for my brother we’ve encountered countless days of unwanted stress. I have been accused or harassment while simply trying to see my brother. I miss him. His mom misses him. His nephew misses him. I’m simply trying to right this awful wrong! I’ve reached out to several political figures. I can only imagine the torment and pain my brother is going through.

    Finally, a year and a half after our father died I found my brother out in public in his hometown of Washington, Iowa. He seemed so lost and confused; he resembled a deer in headlights. He then stuck his arms out and hugged me. His caregiver, Libby preceded to say he does not love you and doesn’t want to see you as she instantly called his guardian. My brother and my son were hugging as Jim’s guardian appeared. His guardian released my son from Jim’s arms and preceded to tell us we couldn’t touch him because she is his guardian and he’s her property!

    I have learned this is not just an issue for my family but others in Iowa and all over our country. Guardians should have limitations and the ward should be able to see and speak to whomever they wish if they are not dangerous, I have started an online petition. (See link I also have a Facebook page that includes pictures and video of Jim and my reunion in the street!! And you are more than welcome to view the stories of others which are posted from time to time.

    There’s nothing on file stating we cannot see or communicate with one another only a suggestion by the Judge to improve communication between Dad’s second wife and myself.

    Guardianship laws need to be changed. Giving the voiceless a voice.

    Check out the bill that’s been introduced to free Jimmy:


    Cynthia shared a story:

    Cynthia shared a story:

    My Dad remarried about 7 years after our Mom passed away in 1987. Little by little, his wife separated him from me and my sisters. But there was little she could do to break the strong family ties we shared. That is, util my Dad started to suffer the effects of dementia. They have lived in Florida for several years. My Dad is 86 now. Beginning about 3 years ago, angered by us taking our Dad back to Massachusetts to care for him (he was unable to live on his own and take care of his basic needs) while she was in the hospital for several months, recuperating and rehabbing from a stroke, she completely cut him off from us once she was home, and he returned to Florida. Our Dad would have never stood for this type of treatment before his dementia took hold of his mind. Now, he feels helpless to do anything about the situation. He has been completely manipulated and emotionally and psychologically abused . Our phone calls are blocked and visits are not allowed in their gated community. We have hired lawyers, filed complaints, written letters. All to no avail. My Dad appears to those who do not see him frequently, to be capable of making his own decisions. But this is not so. Only those who know his nature and his history would be able to see the effect this manipulation has had on him. We fear that we will not know if something happens to him. We need for there to be some law in place that says we have a right to visit our Dad and spend time with him . I’m hoping that through this foundation, we will soon have that right.

    Duane shared a story:

    My story began at the beginning of 1985 when my grandpa William W. Shields died. During the early 80’s, my grandparents made the fatal mistake of making my uncle (Kenneth W. Shields) the ‘guardian’ of their affairs. That error came back to bite my grandma later on in her life.

    When my grandpa passed in 1985, he made sure that everything was updated and fixed in their house so that my grandma would have years of comfort in a home that they owned in Kansas City, MO since 1941. That wasn’t meant to be though, as after my grandpa’s passing, my uncle did little (if ANYTHING) to keep my grandma in a home that was fully repaired, as he allowed my grandma to use her bathroom sink to take baths with, as he didn’t want to get her bathtub repaired. Along with that, he replaced the locks on her front and back entrances with three different kinds of locks after a freak robbery, so that she had to use THREE different keys to get in and out of the place! He also kept promising to get her enclosed porch repaired, along with getting her house a new coat of paint, but he always had the excuse that he’d have it done when ‘his people’ got around to it. Funny thing was that ‘his people’ found PLENTY of time to repair a 1979 Toyota Cressida that got totaled from a freak accident my grandma had with the vehicle in 1993, and he kept it in her garage to taunt her, making her think that the accident was her fault, when in reality, she had to get up for an early dental appointment, and she happened to hit a blind spot which temporarily blinded her, making her unable to see the red light at a left turn signal. For the final years of her life, she kept blaming herself that the accident was her fault, and my uncle was ‘nice enough’ to take her to court to get her driver’s license revoked! He also wouldn’t allow me to have someone come and clean her basement, even though it was filled with junk that had no use whatsoever, so it stayed in there cluttering up the place until she passed in 1998.

    Besides his lack of concern for keeping up my grandma’s home, my uncle Ken was also EXTREMELY jealous for me helping her out with her many doctors visits, and repairs around the home. If it weren’t for me, a new set of blinds bought by my grandpa in the mid 80’s would still have been sitting under his bed instead of on the windows after I installed them! He was also hellbent on thinking that everything he did was right, as when we questioned him about a light fixture being installed upside down, he went ballistic on me and my mom, thinking we didn’t know anything about home repair! This same man also went nuts about me buying flood lights for my grandma’s outdoor fixtures, even though I got them for half the price that regular stores charged. I also had to get my grandma away from ‘crackpot doctors’ my uncle used for her health, as the eye doctor that removed her cataracts was a quack, as she never could see correctly after the procedure was done, and I finally told her after the last visit to that office that I’d take her to her regular eye doctor of 40 years, but not to that person, and she agreed, which really pissed him off! She also went to a medical doctor who didn’t diagnose her colon cancer correctly, so she had to deal with going to the bathroom constantly for five years without knowing a definitive answer to her health problem – she didn’t know the diagnosis until a month prior to her untimely death with another doctor! I could have killed that man for that! He also didn’t like the fact that I suggested she use non-carbonated checks, as she thought they were easier to use, even though he liked them so he could check up on her spending. He also despised the fact that I helped her get better appliances when she needed them, as well as me and my mom helping her out on a bi-weekly basis with regular chores! His family wasn’t much better to her, as my cousin got married on her birthday without even consulting her about it, invited her sister up for a visit when she told everyone for years that she didn’t get along with her well in person, and finally, my uncle thought she didn’t know about training her pet dogs, and blamed her for their problems instead of doing something to fix them. My cousin also gave my grandma a cat in which he rarely got groomed, therefore, the cat’s feces were hanging from the bottom of its rear fairly often, and she was left cleaning up after the mess most of the time!

    The thing that hurt me the most were two phone calls my uncle made to my grandma in which he was literally yelling at her, just because I was there at her home either helping her out, or just spending time with her – you could hear him yelling at her from across the room, almost being able to make out each word that he was saying! I will never forget one of the last words she had to say about him before her untimely passing in 1998, “If he’s the guardian, then what the hell is he guarding me from?”

    My grandma’s funeral in June of 1998 was a farce, in that music was played that she would never listen to, she was made up to almost look like a clown, and the person talking about her didn’t know one damn thing about her, as she never knew her in life! My uncle and his family went through her home like a tornado after she passed, and it really made me want to cry to see a home that I loved dearly was being torn apart like that!

    Kudos to Kerri Kasem for bringing elder abuse to light – if I knew about that back then, I would have sued to take the guardianship away from my Uncle Ken, and my grandma could have lived a longer (and more healthier) life because of it!

    Thank you for proving a forum to vent on things like this Kerri – it’s greatly appreciated!